To tell you the truth Mike I'm a little freaked out by the whole thing. Darla's acting just like it's no big thing, like it's just another day
. Her brother was just 51 years old & has many kids & grandkids. I guess it's just her way to deal with it. I know when my Mom died last year, I went up to Watts Bar & went striper fishing & just let everyone else handle it. Didn't realy fish much, just floated around in a daze staring off at the hills. Everybody deals with death diff. I guess.
May the comfort of the Holy Ghost be with you and the entire family as you go through this process. Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.