Ok, I've read every post and I'm going to put my two cents in. I call it like I see it so if you don't agree then that is OK, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I was at the very first CFF event, one of the 5 boats that showed up to fish out of Grasshopper on the Chick so while you might not agree with what I'm about to say at least you will know that I'm not a "johnny come lately" who hasn't paid his dues with the CFF.
Has our forum changed, yes - of course it has - with increased size comes increased problems. The old saying, you can please some of the people some of the time but you can't please all the people all the time is really true. The bigger an organization gets the more opinions / likes / dislikes and attitudes you have to deal with. Now this is the important part so don't miss this statement --- The problems are not with the leaders the problems are with all of us - we have met the enemy and he is us!
It seems to me that our actual events run smooth which is a credit to our committee. They are volunteers and they do a good job. I mean come on, they don't have to serve us. Someone has to step up and place themselves in the cross hairs and become a target for criticism by leading. If no one ever stepped up our events wouldn't exist. If there seems to be more rules than in the past it is because we as a group have whined and complained about some little this or that to a committee member who took the complaint seriously as they should and then the next thing you know a rule gets passed. What happens is something doesn't go right for someone, or they were having a bad day and someone looked at them cross-eyed or didn't speak or they just missed the money by .01 oz and they are upset and the next thing you know a lot of crap gets going. Look what needs to happen is what used to happen when we were small. Let's treat each other as we want to be treated. If something doesn't go your way or someone offends you then extend grace to them. Heck they probably don't even know they offended you in the first place and it wasn't intentional. Let's say someone says or does something that I don't like - I have a choice - moan and cry and make a big deal about it and start lobbying other members to build my "gang" and just create a lot of problems or I can just say Oh well, suck it us like a big boy and extend that person some grace. Then in the future when I open my big mouth, and let's face it we all are guilty at times, and hurt someone then they will extend grace to me. We and I mean all of us on the CFF have a choice to make. Is this thing worth saving and I think it is or isn't it. If we value what we have then we will put on our big boy pants and focus on the fun and fellowship and exchanging information and just fish and have fun. If we don't value this then let's just keep going like it is going and all get a chip on our shoulder and be set ready and primed to be offended and this thing we call the CFF will fade into history, maybe not next week or next year but it will decline and go away. I would hate that. I've made a lot of great friendships here that I hope will last the rest of my life and the thing is that there are more great friendships to make in the days ahead. I don't know who the good Lord will bless me with but you are out there and I'm looking forward to making your acquaintance.
We need to be appreciative of our committee members and their efforts. We should all thank God for the health and wealth we have to participate in fishing and enjoyment of God's creation. Let's all take a great big CHILL Pill and cut the bickering and back stabbing and get back to what is important. If we live long enough we will all be at a place and time where we would give anything to be able to wet a line, enjoy other anglers company, spend time outdoors. See the big picture.
God Bless,